Why do some aspiring authors–or even published authors, for that matter–wind up not writing?
For starters, most of us don’t have the luxury of writing full-time. We have jobs, and making a living takes precedence over almost everything else. Of course, we have to manage other basics, like food and shelter. And then there’s our personal life. Get beyond all of that, and you have to overcome those writing gremlins, including fear of failure, perfectionism, and overwhelm that like to attach themselves to would-be writers, and can be summed up in a single word. Doubt.
No wonder writers are world-class procrastinators—we’ll alphabetize our spice racks before writing a sentence. We wait to be motivated, and then wait some more. If that’s been your go-to, you’re probably still waiting.
The fix:
- Give yourself permission to write badly. I call it sloppy copy. A messy draft allows you to skip the self-judgment that can be immobilizing.
- Set small goals. Fifteen minutes a day beats waiting for the “perfect” three-hour block if that’s impossible for now. Or aim for an achievable daily word count — say 200 words, which is less than a single, double-spaced typed page, if that works better for you. But make this an honest effort. No multitasking or checking your phone. Go for a focused, short dive. You’ll be shocked at what happens.
- Accountability. Join a group, hire a coach, or find a buddy. You’re looking for honest but positive input, along with a situation in which you can brainstorm ideas. That kind of creative interaction will prime the pump.
- Reconnect to your why. Remember why you wanted to write this book in the first place. When I’m not writing, that’s what gets me going again.




















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